I’m the coach.
What are you navigating right now?
Choose what fits right now. You can move between both.
Draft starter guidance.
You can be affected and still be leading.
You may be trying to be there for the team while living through the same loss yourself. Those experiences can overlap. You do not have to sort them into separate parts or explain everything you are feeling.
Start with the responsibility in front of you.
You do not have to resolve everything at once. Give yourself a moment to name the thing that needs attention.